Open House The Great Sex Experiment Season 1 Episode 6
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00:00But is it possible to open up your relationship without harming it?
00:04It's a complete mystery, the whole thing. This is it. We don't know what to expect.
00:08These curious couples are about to find out.
00:11Oh, that is gorgeous.
00:13They're traveling to a unique retreat.
00:15Hello, you all right?
00:17Where, with the help of a specialist relationship therapist...
00:21Life is short. Why limit sex to just one person?
00:25..and a group of single, available and sexually liberated residents...
00:31It's just natural to have sex with multiple people.
00:36..they're about to discover if their sexual fantasies...
00:40Oh, jeez!
00:42..can become a reality.
00:44We like the idea of group sex.
00:47We were just wondering if you'd like to spend the night with us.
00:49..and whether or not they'll be able to break one of society's greatest taboos.
00:54I should have been thinking about the man that I love
00:58and how he was feeling.
01:00..and have sex with other people.
01:03Oh, my God!
01:05Wow, I was not expecting that.
01:08This is the most up my comfort zone I've ever been.
01:11I'm nervous.
01:22Yeah.
01:23I've got butterflies.
01:24How are you feeling?
01:26Yeah, buzzing.
01:27Checking into the retreat are Ellie and Chaos,
01:30whose love affair began online.
01:32When I first saw Ellie, she was wearing these very small shorts
01:36and her bum was, like, kind of hanging out.
01:38Oi! Oi!
01:39It was a very hot day, so...
01:41You ready to have fun, Ellie?
01:42Yeah.
01:44Can't wait.
01:46Chaos was quick to take the relationship to the next level.
01:49I prepared this video.
01:51Will you be my girlfriend?
01:53Then it went viral.
01:54I went bright red.
01:55I went literally the shade of a tomato
01:57and all the comments were saying about how...
02:01Yeah.
02:02Sit!
02:03As a professional GB athlete,
02:06Chaos knows how to stay cool under pressure.
02:09I'm just a really chilled and laid-back person.
02:12I have complete trust in Ellie and what she does,
02:15so I have nothing to worry or be jealous of her.
02:18And being super fit helps him keep up in the bedroom.
02:22We do do it, like, well, every day.
02:25The chemistry is good.
02:27So we're quite adventurous.
02:29Top-notch.
02:31I would probably say that I have a very high, like, sex drive
02:35and, yeah, it's hard to find someone that matches that.
02:38Now the couple want to find out
02:40if opening up their relationship,
02:42starting with a threesome,
02:44will help them keep the spark alive.
02:46I'd say the honeymoon period is over,
02:49but we're still very much so attracted to each other.
02:52I do think it's a bit naive to think
02:54that you can be with one person for your entire life.
02:57Can we see it?
02:59Yes.
03:00Oh, my God.
03:02How are you doing?
03:03Here to welcome them are hosts Jess and Tom,
03:06who are in a long-term open relationship themselves.
03:09How are you feeling?
03:10Very excited to see what's to come, yeah.
03:13Hello.
03:14Hello, everyone.
03:15Hi, everyone.
03:17Now, Kea.
03:18Nice to meet you.
03:19Nice to meet you.
03:20God, you look so good.
03:21Yeah.
03:21Intimacy therapist Dr. Laurie Beth
03:28wants to help the couple
03:29take their first steps into non-monogamy.
03:32Hey.
03:33Grab a chair.
03:34It's good to meet you, too.
03:35So why don't you tell me
03:36what has brought you here?
03:39We thought this would be the perfect opportunity
03:41to have a threesome.
03:42Yep.
03:43Seeing Ellie, for example,
03:45kiss another girl or anything like that,
03:47I'm attracted to that, so...
03:49I think that's Kea's ideal scenario.
03:50I mean, that's kind of every guy's dream,
03:53let's be honest, right?
03:55What do you think other people
03:56might bring to your relationship?
03:58I mean, more fun, I guess.
03:59Yeah, I guess.
04:00Yeah, okay.
04:00Yeah.
04:01More fun.
04:02Yeah.
04:03So where are you in your sexuality?
04:05I've always said I don't really label things
04:07and never consider myself as straight or bisexual.
04:10I've always had attraction to both sexes,
04:12so that's really how I feel.
04:15So opportunities are structured with that in mind?
04:18Yes, yeah.
04:19What is jealousy like for you?
04:22I've never been jealous in my life, really.
04:24I mean, I've nothing.
04:25I don't know how...
04:26Like, there's nothing that will make Kea's jealous,
04:28he has said, so that's interesting.
04:30Not that I know of, anyway.
04:31Yeah, exactly.
04:32Thank you, but nothing that comes to mind.
04:34What's jealousy like for you?
04:36Slightly a bit jealous.
04:37I mean, it would be strange not to be.
04:38I don't think that he would ever do anything
04:40behind my back,
04:41so I do fully trust him in that way.
04:44But I can be a little bit jealous.
04:46Okay, so before you date together,
04:50Ellie, I want you to go on a social alone.
04:54I want you to explore your bisexuality on your own first,
04:57without Kea's there,
04:59so you don't have to worry about jealousy.
05:01You'll have the opportunity to meet someone,
05:04spend the night with them,
05:05and lay the groundwork for a threesome.
05:07Yeah, that sounds good to me.
05:09Cool.
05:10It's hard to predict how someone will react
05:12seeing their partner give
05:14or receive pleasure from another.
05:16She's not actually sure she might get jealous
05:18seeing him with another woman.
05:20It can be fine one minute
05:21and absolutely not fine the next.
05:25We're gonna go away and have socials,
05:28so mine's tonight.
05:30That's what's got my nerves going,
05:31but I guess I'm excited as well.
05:33Give me a heart.
05:39We're gonna throw ourselves into it, I think.
05:42Give it 100%, see what it's about.
05:44Yeah, and have fun with it.
05:47The couple have only just arrived at the retreat,
05:50and one of them has already made a big impression
05:53on the residents.
05:55When Ellie came in, yeah,
05:57she was so confident, I was just like,
05:59I didn't even care about the car,
06:00I was just looking at her like...
06:01That's why she looked classy as well.
06:02Very.
06:03She is bisexual.
06:04Oh, she is bisexual.
06:05Yeah.
06:05Okay, cool.
06:06And he's straight.
06:07There's a lot of girls that are okay
06:09with getting with a girl,
06:10but wouldn't want the guy to have sex with her.
06:12Girl, yeah.
06:13So they'll be having fun,
06:14and he can just watch.
06:15Watch.
06:15Yeah.
06:19Are you scared?
06:21A little bit.
06:21Next to check in to this exclusive retreat are couple Helen and Steve from Dorset.
06:28My first impression of Steve,
06:29my first impression of Steve, I thought he was Jack the Lad.
06:32I remember you sent me a picture of a bed at a hotel, a four poster bed saying,
06:37are we going to hang out?
06:38I thought, who's this man think he is?
06:41She had a lovely smile, but it was her arse.
06:44She had a very nice bum.
06:45I didn't fall in love with him.
06:49He irritated me.
06:50He would contact me about three times a year on Facebook.
06:54All right, babe, when are we going to get married then?
06:57And then my house burned down, and he offered to help.
07:01And I don't know.
07:02I kind of really fancied him with his brush, painting my walls.
07:05And now she drives a Range Rover Sport.
07:07What a life.
07:07Oh, hey.
07:09Well, Cushty, you couldn't go wrong meeting me, babe, could you?
07:12Wow.
07:13Oh, look at the river.
07:14Look at the size of that lake as well, look.
07:16Don't have too many drinks, Steve.
07:17You'd be skinny dipping in there.
07:18Damn right I will.
07:20The couple have been together for four years and have a one-year-old child.
07:25My daughter is my baby girl.
07:27My pride and joy.
07:29And she make anyone broody?
07:31Broody, does that mean horny?
07:32No.
07:34He's funny with words.
07:35He doesn't get them all.
07:36Helen and Steve have no complaints between the sheets.
07:40I'd rate Steve 9 out of 10 in the bedroom.
07:45This tongue is better than anything you get at Ann Summers.
07:48Ann Summers has got nothing on my tongue.
07:51That's fair.
07:52It's true, though, isn't it?
07:52Yeah, that's fair.
07:54Oh, my gosh.
07:55The size of that.
07:57Steve and Helen are here to explore if being in an open relationship with other people
08:02can make them stronger as a couple.
08:05Here we are.
08:06Let's go.
08:07It's an opportunity to discover what we both really, truly want.
08:11I think this will make a huge difference to our relationship.
08:16Wow, pretty, isn't it?
08:17I'm excited about going on this journey.
08:19It's definitely an eye-opener.
08:20Hey, guys.
08:24It's nice to meet you.
08:26I'm going to give you a hug.
08:27How you doing, mate?
08:28You all right?
08:29Yeah, really good, mate.
08:30Smart hat, that, isn't it?
08:31Nice to meet you, Jess.
08:32How you doing?
08:32Welcome to the house.
08:35Take you on a tour around the place, yeah?
08:37Yeah.
08:37Do you want to do this way?
08:38Oh, yeah.
08:39You all right?
08:40Nice to meet you.
08:45There's a steam.
08:46Yeah.
08:47He's got thrown in the deep end.
08:48Obviously, with letting them, it's quite hard.
08:50Yeah, I might feel a little bit uneasy, him going on a date with someone else.
08:54So, yeah, cross that bridge when I come into it.
09:03You've got to get me some sexy outfit.
09:06Ellie and Chaos are hoping to bring another woman into their relationship.
09:10But before they date as a couple...
09:12I mean, I'm no fashion expert, but I think it goes.
09:17Dr. Laurie wants Ellie to explore her bisexuality without having to manage her jealousy.
09:24So, she's going on a solo social.
09:26Being a little bitch right now.
09:28You need to have it a little bit up.
09:30No, like, point.
09:31Yeah, like that.
09:32I love staring at a palette.
09:36If she makes a connection with someone, she'll have the opportunity to invite them to spend
09:41the night with her.
09:42It is amazing that I'm finally kind of getting to explore this
09:47when I'm in a relationship with Chaos.
09:49It's going to be a great experience.
09:50Yeah.
09:51Sexy, yes.
09:53I think she's going to enjoy herself, and I look forward to hearing all the gossip about it.
09:58Yeah, you look good.
10:00Looking good as well.
10:01Does it look good?
10:02Yeah.
10:03I'm excited to get to know new people and have fun.
10:06I'm taking it as it comes, so we'll have to wait and see what is in store.
10:09Have fun.
10:11What?
10:12No.
10:13I'll see you tomorrow.
10:14I'll see you tomorrow.
10:15Love you too.
10:22Tonight, Ellie has a chance to socialise at a party where all the guests share a belief
10:27in the benefits of non-monogamy.
10:30Hi.
10:31Hello.
10:32You okay?
10:33Good.
10:33Nice to see you again.
10:34Nice to see you too.
10:35Host Jess is on hand to make sure things run smoothly.
10:40I wanted to introduce you to Ellie.
10:42So have you been having a good day?
10:44Yeah.
10:45So, I mean, we're throwing a d-pad.
10:46I don't know what to expect.
10:48I really don't know.
10:49It would be nice to find out their expectations as well.
10:52I don't know whether they'd find me attractive.
10:56Do you have a relationship with that girl?
10:57No.
10:58Have any of you?
10:59No.
11:00No.
11:00I have.
11:02Yeah.
11:03How was that?
11:05Chaos is quite comfortable for me to get with a girl because he obviously finds that attracted
11:10to him.
11:11Hi, ladies.
11:13He doesn't find it with men, so he wouldn't want me to do that.
11:16What are you?
11:17Sagittarius.
11:17Okay.
11:18Yeah, I'm Cancer.
11:19Okay, yeah.
11:20So, Chaos is Leo.
11:22Oh, really?
11:23My ex was Leo.
11:25Oh.
11:25Yeah, so...
11:26We're picking the same ones as well.
11:29Aries and Leo, they're like the ones I've always been, like, romantically involved with.
11:33So, we're drawn to you.
11:35Yeah.
11:35Yeah, like, literally no other signs put them.
11:37Me being Aries in case.
11:39I know, it's really right.
11:40I'm the best of you.
11:42How long have you two been together for?
11:44A year.
11:45Oh, we don't...
11:46Like, we were dating before that.
11:48Oh, okay.
11:48We were pretty much exclusive when we were dating, so it's been more than a year.
11:51Yeah, a bit efficient.
11:52Yeah.
11:52A year.
11:53Well, our anniversary is on the 27th of this month.
11:56Oh, okay.
11:57So, see.
11:58Do you have any pick now?
11:59Uh, no, not yet.
12:00A threesome.
12:01Yeah.
12:02A threesome.
12:02Joan, that's what he wanted for his birthday.
12:04Oh, God.
12:06Great, so you're available on the 27th.
12:08Yeah.
12:09Oh, yeah.
12:09You should have had it as well.
12:12Cheers, ladies.
12:14Cheers.
12:15To help Ellie get comfortable with non-monogamy, the residents have arranged a game of Spin the Bottle.
12:21That's you?
12:22That is a homeset you, girl.
12:24Whee!
12:26Kissing someone else while in a committed relationship is a first for Ellie.
12:32I'm nervous because I feel like it's all eyes on me, so that makes me very nervous.
12:40Hey.
12:41Oh, let's go, let's go, let's go.
12:43Literally.
12:43It's easy because we're so next to each other.
12:45Exactly.
12:47Whee!
12:48Hey!
12:49Yes, ladies.
12:51That was really cute.
12:52Yeah, you've got very nice lips.
12:54Oh, thank you.
12:55For me, kissing the girls, there's no feelings involved.
12:59Yay!
13:01Get up, girl.
13:02It's just a game, like, just have fun with it.
13:07Ooh!
13:08Oh!
13:09Hey!
13:10Game over, Ellie's decided she would like to spend time alone with one of the residents.
13:17With girls, it's harder to choose.
13:19They're all so lovely, and I didn't get to kiss Gracie.
13:23And obviously, she's, like, so pretty.
13:25And I chose Gracie.
13:27Yay!
13:27Yay!
13:28Don't make me cry!
13:32For Ellie, the date is an opportunity to lay the groundwork for a threesome before boyfriend
13:38Chaos gets involved.
13:39Her vibe is great.
13:41Like, she seems really fun.
13:43I do fancy Ellie, yeah.
13:44She's really, really sweet.
13:46She's definitely my type.
13:47So, yeah, I think me and Ellie got on really, really well.
13:50And the girls could see it as well, so that's also a good sign.
13:55It definitely makes me nervous, but I just take it step by step, and, you know, if you're
14:01comfortable with it, then just have fun with it.
14:15Ellie is on a date without Chaos before the couple trial opening up their relationship
14:20together.
14:22Would you like to do the honors?
14:23Yeah.
14:23How are you first, darling?
14:26Oh, adorable.
14:27This is cute.
14:28This is literally, like, glamping.
14:30It is, isn't it?
14:31And she's invited Grace to spend some one-on-one time with her.
14:34I'm going to take my heels off.
14:36Please, get comfortable.
14:38Cheers.
14:39Chin-chin.
14:40This is obviously my first time on a date with a girl, so that is really exciting.
14:44And, like, I can't wait to explore that side of my sexuality.
14:48I guess you're, like, open to getting to, like, know me and, I mean, Chaos as well.
14:54Yeah.
14:55You'd be happy to, like, have a relationship with someone who's in a relationship or be
15:00involved in their relationship?
15:01Like, yeah, either way.
15:02Like, because it would be me coming to, like, your two's relationship, whatever works best
15:08for you two.
15:08While Ellie and Grace get to know each other more intimately, Chaos is keeping himself
15:15busy.
15:17I would like to think she's having a good time.
15:21And I'll find out tomorrow.
15:24I feel a little good just to work out, just to tie myself out.
15:28But the only thing is there's loads of wasps in here and bugs are a big no-no for me.
15:35Oh, fucking spiders.
15:36So, I don't know how I'm going to sleep tonight in this room knowing there's two wasps flying
15:41around.
15:44Back in the yurt, the girls have found a game to play.
15:48Shall we try these dices out?
15:49Yeah, you want to?
15:53Okay, so, you're my lover.
15:55Okay, cool.
15:56So, you've got to lick me.
15:58Are you having me to lick you?
16:01Okay, I'll just let you be a surprise.
16:06That was nice.
16:11That was nice.
16:12And that's actually, like, one of my spots.
16:14So, I was like...
16:15Like, inside.
16:16Okay, cool.
16:17No.
16:18You can't go wrong with it.
16:19I threw myself into it and, like, tried to see whether I could develop, like, a deeper
16:23connection.
16:24Okay, my turn.
16:25Okay.
16:26My turn.
16:27Massage.
16:28Oh my god, yes!
16:29Yeah!
16:30You've got very, very, very soft skin.
16:31Yeah, it's very nice.
16:32It's so good.
16:33Amazing!
16:34Okay, well, clearly it was just kiss my boobs.
16:35So, feel free.
16:36Boob, kiss, kiss my boobs.
16:37Yeah, well, I'll give a little...
16:39Loved it.
16:40Yeah?
16:41Yeah.
16:42Yeah.
16:43Before I turn the light off, do you want to have a little kiss?
16:46I just feel like, you know, it would have been so much tonight.
16:47It was quite a new experience, so maybe, I don't know, maybe I was just a bit nervous.
17:13It kind of hurts me when I already have an emotional connection with someone else in
17:18a relationship.
17:29Committed couple Helen and Steve have come to the retreat to explore opening up their relationship
17:34to other sexual partners.
17:36Hey, guys.
17:37Hello.
17:38Come on in and sit down.
17:39Dr. Laurie is on hand to help the couple brave their first few steps into non-monogamy.
17:44So, what brought you here now?
17:48I want to date other people, have a connection with someone.
17:52Mm-hmm.
17:53You're the driving force.
17:54Would that be a fair thing to say?
17:56Would you say me?
17:57Yeah, definitely.
17:58On this experience, I've pushed this a little bit more because I want Steve to recognize
18:03things that are important in a relationship because there's a lot of things that we don't
18:08do together.
18:09What's the romance like in your relationship?
18:11Steve's very, very busy all the time.
18:14You know, I'm a busy person too.
18:17We don't have a massive amount of time for each other.
18:20If romantic is nice, I could write you a list.
18:23I'm always nice to her like that.
18:24I'm just that sort of guy.
18:26Isn't it?
18:27That's not romantic, though, is it?
18:28Romance is whining and donning someone and taking them out.
18:30We've not been for a day yet.
18:32I took you on the back of my jet ski.
18:33Steve, do you have any ideas of things that you would like to do?
18:36I don't think I could just meet someone and just jump into a bedroom.
18:39I think they'd have to get to know the people more.
18:42Consensual non-monogamy takes lots of different forms.
18:45This gives you the opportunity to see how different things feel
18:48and to challenge some of your boundaries that come from monogamy.
18:52We've got quite a good relationship with sort of, you know,
18:56we don't have the insecurities or anything.
18:59You love me, don't you?
19:00Of course, baby.
19:01Oh, there you go. See?
19:02Well, that was a pretty quick response.
19:05So tonight, you're each going to go on a social,
19:09spending the nights separately.
19:11Then you're each going to have the opportunity to choose somebody
19:14to spend one-to-one time with.
19:16Mm-hmm.
19:17You don't have to do anything,
19:18but I'm encouraging you to push out the boat a little bit.
19:22Yeah, lovely.
19:23Come on then, Steve.
19:24Nice to meet you. See you later on.
19:26You too.
19:27This is a really interesting couple.
19:32I suspect that there's an emotional void in Helen
19:36that is really driving this whole thing,
19:38but I'm not sure that meeting and potentially having sex with other people
19:43is going to fill that void.
19:45I'm really curious to see how they do on their socials.
19:49That's so nice, isn't it?
19:51Yeah.
19:52Oh, that's so nice.
19:55So where do you find yourself at with this?
19:58I don't know.
19:59I think, I don't know.
20:01It's very hard, Steve, isn't it?
20:04Yeah.
20:05Yeah.
20:06I am looking forward to my social.
20:07It's a good bunch of people.
20:09It'd be good to get out and enjoy the company and see where it takes us.
20:12I just plan to have some fun.
20:14But Steve is considering the potential risks.
20:18I wouldn't mind being game and experimenting and that.
20:21Would you let me go and bang, sorry, sleep with one?
20:24Would you let me go and sleep with one of these women?
20:26Just to go on a trial, just to see what I was like.
20:28It's not a laughing matter, really.
20:30It's okay, Steve.
20:31This is very serious decisions, Helen.
20:32All right, put the whip down.
20:41Last night, Ellie went on her first ever date with a girl.
20:46Hello.
20:47Hello, stranger.
20:48While boyfriend, Chaos, spent the night alone.
20:51Yeah, I think Gracie's really attractive.
20:53She has, like, such a nice smile and, like, her skin is so good.
20:57I love her freckles, her hair, everything.
20:59But it's not that, like, I really want to rip your clothes off kind of thing.
21:03I was, like, nervous to see my own boyfriend.
21:06Are they new?
21:08No, they're Gracie's.
21:10So, tell me about the price.
21:14What was yours?
21:15No, what did you do?
21:16No, I'll tell you, you tell yours.
21:17Yeah.
21:19Well, we played spin the bottle.
21:21Yeah.
21:22So I kissed Kelsey and Chanel.
21:25When Ellie told me that she was kissing multiple girls doing spin the bottle, I thought that was quite hot, to be honest.
21:31I mean, who wouldn't?
21:32I think that's, for me, that's a turn on.
21:34So I've got, yeah, I'm all for that.
21:37Then Gracie and we went to a yurt.
21:41I ended up licking her neck.
21:42I mean, she licked my neck.
21:44And I, like, kissed her boob.
21:47So you had quite a fun night, then.
21:49Tonight, the couple will have the chance to invite someone on a date together, in the hope of having a threesome for the first time.
21:57I just don't know how much I feel about you going and kissing people.
22:02Well, you know it's going to, that something like that is going to happen.
22:05You know that?
22:06Yeah, but obviously you don't have to.
22:10No, but...
22:11I'm going to be nervous and maybe, maybe jealous, I don't know.
22:14For me, him kissing girls, that's definitely tiptoeing on, like, boundaries.
22:27Helen and Steve are getting ready for separate socials.
22:33Got chicken legs at the minute.
22:35Dr. Laurie wants them to try and make a connection with someone, and then invite them to spend some time together, alone, on a date.
22:42My expectations are to have fun and go on dates with a couple of people. It will be nice.
22:49The social will be an opportunity for Helen to experience romance, something she thinks her relationship lacks.
22:56Remember Christmas Eve? I wanted us to wear Christmas pyjamas and watch a movie together and you were at the pub.
23:02Yeah.
23:03It's Christmas, isn't it? It's when you go out, Christmas, isn't it?
23:05No, family time.
23:06Family time.
23:07I'm out of here.
23:08Have fun.
23:09Love you.
23:11Come on.
23:20The retreat's sexually liberated residents are ready to welcome the couple.
23:25Hello.
23:26Come here.
23:28Nice to see you.
23:29You look stunning.
23:30How are you doing?
23:31How are you doing, man?
23:32How are you doing, man?
23:33Do you get many parties like this, do you?
23:34Are you not?
23:35No, absolutely not.
23:36No, absolutely not.
23:37Hello.
23:38How are you doing?
23:39You all right?
23:40How are you doing?
23:41Enjoy.
23:42Have a nice evening.
23:43I'll catch you all the latest.
23:44What's up, girls?
23:45So what brings you here, then?
23:46Experience, innit?
23:47Yeah.
23:48I've never done anything like this before.
23:50I just mean like an open relationship.
23:51No, never.
23:52Like when I went on dates or anything like that with anyone else or I had like a threesome
23:56or anything.
23:57No.
23:58No.
23:59No.
24:00You ready to spice things up later?
24:01You're like, yeah, let's go in.
24:02See how the boat goes, innit?
24:03Yeah.
24:04See how the boat goes. Yeah
24:06Not used to dating etiquette Steve takes a novel approach to flirting
24:12What's your ideal date night then the emerald farmer in front of the telly in it
24:24It's quite hard, I'm not really a person to talk in depth about sexual life like that
24:28I like a bit more privacy
24:30I don't like to boast about things that I've done or boast about things. I'd like to do
24:34So are you like into anything kinky then? I used to be very bad, but what do you mean very bad?
24:40I used to be a ladies entertainer
24:52What's the typical type of person you're doing they go for I've never been all for the big sort of hench guys
24:58It's kind of all the muscles and that at her social you see all right, because you've got definition
25:03How much do you weigh? I'm fine. Helen is wasting no time getting to know the residents. That's muscle then in there
25:11Yeah, because you've got like a 30 inch waist, don't you? Yeah, fair too, fair too
25:16Yeah, and how tall are you? I'm six one and obviously you work out. You don't do that
25:21I'm taking your breakfast spoon in the morning, do you? Do you know what I mean? These guys are great
25:26Everyone's chatting everything's flowing and made me feel like I can be myself
25:30So I'd like to know where it kind of goes from here. You've got a lot of banner right now
25:34Yeah
25:36I don't I'm shy as they come. I feel like Helen's rolled out and me and her were clicking
25:41We're having a bit of banter. I'd definitely like to take her out just to show her that this it can happen like you can there's more things out there
25:48Hello, hello. How are you? You look phenomenal. Thank you. You know, I got some eyelashes on so it's all good
25:54Fresh, yeah, you know
25:56Where are you from again, sir? Dorset, Somerset, like so southwest-y, yeah
26:01What do you do for a job? I just set up a barista coffee business called the Screamin' Bean
26:06What was on your mind when you thought of Screamin' Bean?
26:08My sister said you cannot call it that because it is just disgusting
26:13Yeah, thank you. Like a clitoris. It's a bean. It's clicky though, isn't it?
26:16I just don't know how you didn't see that Screamin' Bean
26:18Architect Josh has taken a shine to Helen
26:21You sound like an experienced lady
26:24What do you want?
26:26Um, commitment and time
26:28Commitment and time
26:29Helen's a lovely lady. I love talking to her
26:33She just seems like an absolute genuine person
26:36That, um, just, you'd want to be around
26:38I think with tattoos, like people go, oh, watch your tattoo, Helen
26:41And it just looks like a little F
26:42Where are your tattoos? Where are your tattoos?
26:44Well, you can't really see it. It's in there
26:47Oh, see it later! Another time in the book
26:50See it later!
26:52And Helen has also made a connection with Josh
26:55I liked the way that Josh asked me what it was that I wanted
27:00Because that, I feel, was important
27:02And the fact that he'd done that showed that he values the other person's sort of needs
27:08So, uh, that one was a bit of a winner for me
27:11On the other side of the retreat
27:18Steve is loosening up
27:20Can you stand up?
27:23I stand up
27:24You're lucky, aren't you?
27:26Ready?
27:27Yeah, I'm ready, yeah
27:28You ready?
27:29Okay
27:30He's decided to give the female residents a taste of his ladies' entertainment
27:35I won't fight, okay?
27:37Okay, okay
27:38Now lay down
27:39Lay down?
27:40Lay down?
27:41Woo!
27:42Woo!
27:43Woo!
27:44Woo!
27:45Woo!
27:46The striptease dance vibe, um, not gonna lie, I thought there was a dick in my mouth at one point
27:51Yeah, that's somewhere to meet someone anyway, just balls straight in the mouth
27:54Um, he's a really fun character
27:56You can take your mask off now, are you ready?
27:58Oh, yes
27:59Oh, wow!
28:00Oh, my God!
28:01Oh, my God!
28:02You're not shy of me, kid
28:03Yeah, no, you're not
28:04You're not shy of me
28:05Thank you, man
28:06Thank you, man
28:07Woo!
28:08Woo!
28:09Woo!
28:10Woo!
28:11Woo!
28:12Woo!
28:13Woo!
28:14Woo!
28:15Woo!
28:16Woo!
28:17Woo!
28:18Woo!
28:19Woo!
28:20Woo!
28:21Woo!
28:22Woo!
28:23Woo!
28:24Woo!
28:25Woo!
28:26Woo!
28:27Woo!
28:28Woo!
28:29I think my striptease went down really well with the girls, they were very excited, there
28:33was a very large amount of screaming, it's nice to make someone smile.
28:37Woo!
28:38Woo!
28:39Woo!
28:40Woo!
28:41Woo!
28:42Woo!
28:43Woo!
28:44Woo!
28:45Woo!
28:47As the social winds down, Helen is getting closer to resident Josh.
28:53There's something that you said today, which made me think, yeah, that's a really decent thing.
28:58I wanna know!
28:59I'm interested in you.
29:00You're a lovely, uh, a lovely person to talk to.
29:02Yeah, full of energy.
29:03And a hell of a lot of fun, that's for sure.
29:05And she's invited him to go on a romantic date.
29:10For me, it's an emotional connection with someone that I can get on with, someone that
29:15actually wants to listen.
29:16And that's the reasons why I've picked him.
29:18Shall we go?
29:19Yeah.
29:20After.
29:21Bye.
29:22See you later.
29:23Bye.
29:24Helen picked me, uh, it was a nice surprise.
29:26She had the picker of the guys, and she brought a lot of laughter out of me.
29:29And, um, I think she's just a great person, and I just would love just to get to know her
29:33a little bit more.
29:34Yeah.
29:35Post-strip, partner Steve also wants to spend some one-on-one time with one of the
29:41residents.
29:42Jess?
29:43Yeah?
29:44She told you to come and have a little bit of bed, hasn't her?
29:46Yeah?
29:47Yeah, we'll have fun.
29:48Yeah, we'll just have some fun.
29:49Aww.
29:50I'm really looking forward to going to spend some quality time with Jess.
29:53She's one sort of person.
29:55Very, very weird to be in this situation, to go off with a different woman whilst my wife
30:00knows.
30:01I will enjoy it.
30:02Jess! Jess! Jess! Jess! Jess! Jess! Jess! Jess! Jess! Jess! Jess! Jess!
30:07We're gonna have some fun, definitely, and, yeah, we'll just see where the night goes, yeah.
30:23Committed couple Helen and Steve are dating people outside of their relationship for the
30:29very first time.
30:30After you.
30:31Oh, lovely!
30:32I'm a little bit cute!
30:33I'll take your jacket if you'd like, but I think you're cold, so I'm not going to take
30:38it.
30:39Yeah, I'll bless you.
30:40Helen is being romanced by Josh from West London.
30:43Would you like a glass of wine for us?
30:44Er, yes, please.
30:45Yeah?
30:46I'm excited.
30:47I'm excited to spend time with Josh.
30:49He just seemed really kind of relaxed, chilled and genuine. And I kind of like that.
30:53Me and you are going to have a fantastic time. Yeah.
30:55Look, cheers to this. Thank you for picking me. After you, Jess.
30:59It's cute in here, to be fair.
31:02While Steve is having a one-to-one with Jess from Belfast.
31:06Locking the door, securing it.
31:07Jess is a very nice, bubbly girl.
31:08Oh, fuck it!
31:09I think she's on the same wavelength as I am to see how things occur and how things progress.
31:21Steve struggled with flirting earlier, but being alone with Jess seems to bring out his playful
31:27side.
31:28So, you live in Glasgow then, yeah?
31:30No, Ireland.
31:31Ireland.
31:32Helfast, yeah.
31:33Ireland's not a different country, is it?
31:34It is.
31:35Is it?
31:36Yeah.
31:37No, it's a little thing just above England, isn't it?
31:38No!
31:39I like the accent, man.
31:40I like it.
31:41The Scottish accent or the Irish accent?
31:42Irish accent.
31:43Irish?
31:44Do you think I have an Irish accent?
31:45Yeah.
31:46Would you like another drink?
31:47Yeah, I'll take a tap up.
31:48What?
31:49A tap up?
31:50A tap up.
31:51The date's going really well.
31:52Jess is quite a bubbly person and quite a good laugh to be around.
31:56She's definitely got a bit of banner, and maybe we could see what progresses.
32:01Helen says she hasn't been on a single date with Steve in their whole four-year relationship.
32:06When I started working on building sites, I was scared to go up and do chill days, you
32:11know?
32:12How did you work on building sites?
32:13What did you do?
32:14So small talk over dinner is providing welcome attention.
32:19I used to just, like, sort out concrete blocks, so they're like 80 to 100 kg.
32:23Fucking hell!
32:24Are you joking?
32:25No.
32:26I got told that I'd chat people to death, but, you know, it's not really a bad thing.
32:30I love it.
32:31I love it.
32:32You've got a lot to say.
32:33Josh was actually really gentle and quite intensive.
32:36I kind of liked that, that he actually wanted to listen to me.
32:40It was just nice.
32:41I used to be a David Beckham person, didn't I?
32:43Yeah?
32:44Yeah, I used to joke up with David Beckham.
32:45I can see that, to be fair.
32:46I can see that.
32:47You're definitely not Victoria.
32:48I'm not Victoria.
32:49You're definitely not.
32:50What do you mean?
32:51You're not that way.
32:52That's an insult.
32:53No, I take that as a fucking massive compliment.
32:55A compliment?
32:56You've got a bit of physique.
32:57Yeah.
32:58Yeah, Victoria's got bones and kind of like, arse.
32:59Do you like curves then?
33:00Yeah, I like something.
33:01A bit of something.
33:02Are you more of like a boobs guy or like a bum guy?
33:03An arse.
33:04An arse guy?
33:05Bum guy?
33:06A bottom.
33:07A bottom guy.
33:08A bottom person.
33:09From what I've understood of you so far, I feel like you need support.
33:11I feel like you need people around you that will boost you up.
33:14I'm sorry.
33:15I'm sorry.
33:16I'm sorry.
33:17I'm sorry.
33:18I'm sorry.
33:19I'm sorry.
33:20I'm sorry.
33:21I'm sorry.
33:22I'm sorry.
33:23I'm sorry.
33:24I'm sorry.
33:25I've never had that.
33:28There wouldn't be nothing nicer than the fact that someone actually believing in me and guiding
33:33me.
33:34Do you get me?
33:35I love everything you subscribe to.
33:38I think you can tell that I'm having a fantastic time.
33:42Are you?
33:43Yeah.
33:44I feel like I can't comment on the situation.
33:46You can't comment on the situation?
33:47No.
33:48No?
33:49I'm enjoying myself.
33:50Of course I am.
33:51Good.
33:52I've been on a date for a long time.
33:54Tonight has been like a real eye-opener.
33:56For me, it was about getting to know someone because that's something I feel is missing
34:01from my relationship at the minute.
34:03So, yeah, I've really enjoyed my time.
34:10Back in his yurt.
34:12Do you get whipped all the time?
34:14Do you like all that whipped shit?
34:16It depends who you're whipped.
34:18Despite turning the conversation kinky.
34:19I could do more with my tongue than what my spirit would do with the whole of their body.
34:24Yeah?
34:25Definitely, yeah.
34:26You think?
34:27Yeah, a million percent, a million percent.
34:28I'm coming to Ireland with you.
34:29You're coming back with me?
34:30Yeah, I'm going to meet you that time.
34:31Yeah.
34:32Come on then.
34:33I'll come there.
34:34That's right.
34:35Steve's decided to call it a night.
34:38Did you have fun with me?
34:39Yeah, yeah.
34:40We'll be cracking.
34:41Good, good.
34:42I really had a great time.
34:43Jessie's a very nice girl.
34:44If I was 21, I think, and I come onto an experience like this, I think I'd be well-gamed
34:50for doing it all.
34:51But we've been together for four years, and that's something I don't want to lose.
34:54Oh, give me a cuddle.
35:09After a night experiencing their first ever taste of non-monogamy, Dr. Laurie wants to
35:15help the couple reflect on their dates.
35:18Okay, so let's start with the early part of the evening.
35:23What was that?
35:24Fun.
35:25It was all right?
35:26I picked my date.
35:28Yeah, we shared a couple of drinks together.
35:31Mm-hmm.
35:32Yeah, we clicked.
35:33We got on really well.
35:34And yeah, he's a nice guy.
35:35I went on a date with a girl called Jess.
35:37Mm-hmm.
35:38I did a little show for the ladies while we were in there on the actual thing yesterday.
35:42So I took her with me just to get her to know her a bit more.
35:45You enjoyed the time?
35:46Oh, it was a lovely time with her.
35:47Very lovely girl.
35:48Very, very nice person.
35:49Now that you've both had romantic dates with other people, how do you feel about open
35:54relationships?
35:55The whole idea of this experience really was to sort of better our relationship.
36:00I do always feel that he lives life in the fast lane and sometimes that, you know, not all
36:06my needs are met.
36:07I do agree with what she's saying and I do work a substantial amount of time.
36:11But it has made me realize now that I do need to spend a lot more time with Helen and be
36:16more there for her because I'm not usually there.
36:17Oh, that's good.
36:18Which to me is a good thing about coming onto here.
36:21And it's made me realize I don't think I could be in an open relationship.
36:24No, you could just say no.
36:25Hand on my heart, I really don't.
36:26It's not unusual, you know.
36:28Often couples think they're ready and then they have to go away and work on themselves
36:32and their relationships.
36:33It's taught us to sort of work on our relationship, definitely.
36:38It's been definitely an eye-opener.
36:40100% an eye-opener.
36:41Yeah.
36:43Thank you for throwing yourselves into it.
36:46And I wish you all the best.
36:47Thank you very much.
36:48Have fun.
36:49We will.
36:50Nice to meet you.
36:51You too.
36:52Take care.
36:53Bye, love.
36:58This was a really interesting couple.
37:00Helen was really not getting enough attention from him.
37:03She's not getting the romance from him that she wants.
37:05And she was hoping that non-monogamy was a solution to that.
37:09I am happy that they feel that they learned something in this process.
37:12And they felt that they had something positive to take away.
37:15After you.
37:16Definitely feel happy we're leaving.
37:18Yeah.
37:19But in a good way.
37:20I spent some more quality time definitely is a big thing.
37:22I definitely, definitely haven't spent enough time with her.
37:24And he's learned.
37:25Yeah, this has opened my eyes to see that.
37:27I didn't expect Steve just to openly say that he really wishes that he could spend more time with me.
37:35We've bettered our relationship maybe.
37:37Yeah, I think we have bettered our relationship.
37:39It did make me well up a little bit actually.
37:42You know, because it made me feel that I've got a lot of what I wanted to from this experience.
37:48Tonight, Ellie and KS are going on a social together.
38:04Hey, you look gorgeous.
38:06It's so good to see you.
38:07Yeah, I thought it was my first time.
38:09That was amazing.
38:10And based on their preference, only women are invited to the party.
38:15I really like your tattoos.
38:16Oh, thank you.
38:17They're really cool.
38:18Do you have your tattoos yourself?
38:19Yeah, I've got a few random ones to be honest.
38:22If anything was going to happen in our relationship, it would be together.
38:26So, it's good to experience this with Ellie.
38:29And this is the ideal scenario for me.
38:31So, I'm happy.
38:32I love tattoos.
38:33What's your favourite tattoo that you have?
38:35I'd say my favourite one is this one here.
38:38Because my granddad's from Barbados and he passed away, so...
38:41I think he's enjoying himself, yeah.
38:43Talking to the girls.
38:44He wouldn't.
38:45They're looking for someone to invite on a date and potentially have a threesome with.
38:50I just want to get in the pool.
38:51Have you been in the pool at all?
38:52I know!
38:53Is it?
38:54It's a pool party.
38:55Why are we not all in the pool talking?
38:56Exactly.
38:57I like go on my back when I do that as well.
39:01Backstroke.
39:02And all anyone to see is the boobs.
39:05Just two pairs of tits just like gliding.
39:10And it looks like chaos has made a connection with Precious.
39:14We should get in the hot tub is what we need to do.
39:17Have you been in the hot tub?
39:18I know.
39:19Two spaces.
39:20I mean, Precious is an attractive woman.
39:23I would say physical attraction was...
39:26Yeah, it was definitely there.
39:28So, ladies, our lovely couple have made a decision on who they'd like to spend the night with.
39:33Precious.
39:34Hey!
39:35Hi, girl!
39:38What attracted me to Precious is that she was just...
39:42We had stuff in common and she was just easy to talk to.
39:45And she's been in an open relationship before.
39:47So, I think Ellie will definitely feel a little bit of jealousy as that's just her.
39:52Later.
39:53Let's go.
39:54I think if everything goes well, we have a good, you know, couple of drinks, have dinner, the chemistry is there.
40:00Who knows what could happen?
40:02No, we've never done a joint date.
40:03So, you know, that's going to be in itself something new.
40:06Obviously, she's lovely.
40:07So, that's maybe where, like, jealousy might come in.
40:11Ellie and Chaos came to the retreat to see if they could open their relationship to another woman.
40:27And tonight, they are on a date with Precious.
40:30Oh, you've got a neck tattoo.
40:34Oh, I didn't...
40:36What...
40:37Do your tattoos have any meaning?
40:38Erm, it just means I'm a gift, to be fair.
40:40Really?
40:41Fair enough.
40:42I mean, precious, gift, you know?
40:44It's just...
40:45It's just that.
40:46Yeah.
40:47I'm excited, a little bit nervous, because I have no idea what to expect.
40:52And obviously, it's going to be a bit intimidating at first.
40:55I'd say the best case scenario is that Ellie's comfortable to bring Precious into our relationship.
41:03You're a boob man, aren't you?
41:05I...
41:06I think you like bums, but I think you like big boobs.
41:08You also like that.
41:09I mean, I like both.
41:10You like both, but if I choose, I would go bum over boobs.
41:13Oh, yeah.
41:14Yeah.
41:15I think the emotions were just running high with me, because I got the feeling that she wanted us to dive in and try more,
41:21but the wobble came from just me not wanting to do anything.
41:26Precious, who's been in multiple open relationships, is worried Ellie might not be entirely comfortable with the situation.
41:34So, when a girl kisses, you know?
41:37Yeah.
41:38Do you go...
41:39Oh, yeah, well, that's never happened.
41:41That hasn't happened, no.
41:42So, if I kissed him, you would get upset?
41:45I don't know.
41:46Oh, you see?
41:47If you asked me...
41:48Yeah, you'd be like, I don't care.
41:49I would be like, dad again.
41:50Exactly.
41:51So, like, I don't know.
41:52Do you have to be sure?
41:53Exactly.
41:54But then, you know...
41:55Then you aren't.
41:56I think I overthink it.
41:57Why are you so reserved about it?
41:59I was scared about it.
42:00I don't know.
42:01Because I feel like I'd get jealous.
42:02Do you think you'd get jealous?
42:03Yeah.
42:04You're stunning and you seem like you've got your confidence.
42:06Yeah.
42:07Right?
42:08The person who ever kisses your boyfriend is not going to take him away.
42:11He's yours.
42:13She's still insecure about sharing her boyfriend, her partner, with somebody else.
42:19And she's concerned that he will then get more attached to the other person.
42:25Okay.
42:26Well, I'm going to pop.
42:27I'm going to go, I think.
42:28It's hard to imagine, you know, your partner getting someone on a sexual level.
42:33I don't know what it is.
42:34I feel insecure.
42:35Like...
42:36I know Ellie was upset, but obviously this is a hard thing to do because we are emotionally
42:42invested in each other.
42:43We love each other.
42:51Last night, Ellie and KS' date ended prematurely.
42:55Hey.
42:56Hey, you all right?
42:57Yeah.
42:58You're comfortable.
42:59Now, Dr. Laurie wants to help the couple work through what happened.
43:03How was last night?
43:05Um...
43:06I wasn't, like, comfortable with doing, like, things with other people, I guess.
43:12Right.
43:13My insecurities and jealousies, yeah, it was a difficult thing to go through.
43:18If you had to put a name to those insecurities, what are they?
43:23Like, how would you describe them?
43:25Um...
43:27Like, not feeling good enough.
43:31In general, or with him?
43:33No, like, myself.
43:34In yourself.
43:35So when you look at the world, that's how you feel.
43:38Yeah.
43:39So have you compared yourself to other people?
43:42Yeah, definitely, yeah.
43:44And yet, you're a gorgeous woman, right?
43:49And he clearly adores you.
43:52Correct.
43:53Yeah, well, I'm...
43:54Yeah, and I'm seeing that as well, so...
43:56What's come out of this is that...
43:58Yeah.
43:59Considering opening up and considering non-monogamy has brought up your feelings of not being good
44:04enough.
44:05Yeah.
44:06You know, it's not...
44:07It's not a jealousy.
44:09I don't know.
44:10Um, it's hard to explain, but...
44:12You're not describing jealousy.
44:13What you're saying is that you end up feeling uncomfortable because you don't feel good enough.
44:18And the fear then is, I'll be replaced.
44:21And so, coming here has highlighted that.
44:24Yeah.
44:25You can actually go away and work on that particular bit.
44:28You know, non-monogamy is, like, difficult.
44:30Yeah.
44:31You're not yet ready to open up.
44:32You're just not there.
44:33Yeah.
44:34You've got work to do on your own.
44:36And as a couple, to be in a place where you will be able to open up and feel strong enough
44:41in the relationship.
44:43It's been wonderful to have you here as our guests.
44:45I've really enjoyed meeting you.
44:48It's been so good meeting you as well.
44:50I think you'll do fine.
44:51Thank you very much.
44:52Cheers.
44:53We're all very good at hiding our vulnerabilities, and it's only when things are out of our control
45:00or out of our comfort zone that these vulnerabilities surface.
45:05It's really hard to know if non-monogamy will work for you or not until you try it.
45:12We thought we would test, like, dip our toes in the waters and see what we think of it,
45:17but speaking about it and then doing it is a completely different thing.
45:21We're so happy that we did it, really.
45:23I think that it's something great that everyone, if they could, have a go.
45:28You all right with that?
45:30Yep.
45:31All good.
45:32You got that?
45:33Yes.
45:34There you go.
45:35This process has definitely brought us closer as a couple.
45:51If you are a curious couple, are single, and are interested in being part of the next
46:10Open House Experiment, visit Channel 4's website, Tech Park page.